Before making any decision, tune in to your intuition, your gut feeling, your inner knowing, NOT your intellect.
Practice makes possible, so practice listening inwardly for a feeling that is beyond thought. This will get easier and easier to notice the more you practice. I know this from experience as I’ve been practising for years, and whenever I ignore that now easily accessible feeling, my decision inevitably turns out to be the wrong one. How many time have you said to yourself, “I should have listened to my gut feeling.”?
If you find yourself in a sticky life situation, don’t try to think your way out of it, simply tune in to what feels most right for you and your needs. This will, in turn, be what’s best for all involved, regardless of how they might react or what might happen as a result. Your intuition is connected to the supreme universal intelligence which knows infinitely more than your mind could ever consider.
The best decision is literally a no-brainer. 🙂
And this doesn’t mean simply reacting without thinking. Reacting is linked with your conditioning, either physical or mental, which can come in handy and even be life-saving at times; but reacting is not intuition. Intuition is something that can be acted upon or not, depending on what feels like the right decision.
Try it and see. It’s how I’m planning to live the rest of my life – Intuition and Love. 🙂