(or How to Attract a New Romantic Relationship – Part 3)
So, if after making your lists and feeling your feelings, you’re still not attracting the things you set out to manifest, it’s time to look more closely at the SIGNALS you’re really sending out into the Universe.
One way of doing this is to look at what has manifested in your life. Let’s take romantic relationships as an example. Is there a pattern in the people you attract? They may all be physically different, but all share one quality that is the bane of your life (e.g. infidelity). What is this? Why do you keep attracting the same thing in different guises? Is it a reflection of your own character or a reflection of one of your parents maybe? Do you have those same qualities? Or do you feel unworthy of attracting something better?
For me, my desire used to be stronger than my integrity, and I see that both manifested and reflected in my last few failed romances.
If you want to change what you are attracting, you need to change your relationship with your self. Have a look at the qualities you’re attracting and very honestly look at how they are a part of you. Awareness is half the battle.
Once realised, you can create a new pattern of action and reaction that is more aligned with the positive qualities you wish to attract. Be the change you wish to see in the world. It all begins in you.
What orders have you been placing in the cosmic catalogue? And what do you need to do differently in order to manifest a better life for all involved?